{"id":177,"date":"2026-05-08T18:37:03","date_gmt":"2026-05-09T01:37:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/choice.work\/?p=177"},"modified":"2026-05-08T18:45:30","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T01:45:30","slug":"choice-log-no-1778289931-quit-helping","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/choice.work\/?p=177","title":{"rendered":"Choice log no. 1778289931 &#8211; Quit helping"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Don\u2019t give advice to people that do not want to learn from others and just want to learn the difficult way own their own. Lesson learned. Let people learn on their own\u2026 I have learned on my own, and from others. I try to simply my life and not make any mistakes not needed to make. But that does not mean that other want to do the same. I found my flaw, I thought that everyone thought the same as me in avoiding mistakes, that everyone wanted to avoid known mistakes and not reinvent the mistake wheel.  I guess not.  Today I learn this\u2026<\/p>\n<div style=\"  display: flex;  justify-content: center;  align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"width: 640px;\" class=\"wp-video\"><video class=\"wp-video-shortcode\" id=\"video-177-1\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" preload=\"metadata\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"video\/mp4\" src=\"https:\/\/choice.work\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Shutup.mp4?_=1\"><\/source><a href=\"https:\/\/choice.work\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Shutup.mp4\">https:\/\/choice.work\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Shutup.mp4<\/a><\/video><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Awesome advice!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/choice.work\/?tag=advice\" class=\"tag\"><span class=\"tag-prefix\">#<\/span>advice<\/a><\/p>\n<nav class='o2-post-footer-actions'><ul class='o2-post-footer-action-row'><li class='o2-post-footer-action'><a href=\"https:\/\/choice.work\/?p=177#respond\" title=\"Reply\"  class=\"o2-post-reply o2-reply genericon  genericon-reply\"  data-action=\"reply\"  data-actionstate=\"default\" >Reply<\/a><\/li><\/ul><div class='o2-post-footer-action-likes'><\/div><ul class='o2-post-footer-action-row'><\/ul><\/nav>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don\u2019t give advice to people that do not want to learn from others and just want to learn the difficult way own their own. Lesson learned. Let people learn on their own\u2026 I have learned on my own, and from others. I try to simply my life and not make any mistakes not needed to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[27],"class_list":["post-177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-choice","tag-advice","author-choice"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=177"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":179,"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177\/revisions\/179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/choice.work\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}